Thursday, October 2, 2008

Rebbetzin Chana's Letter





















In honor of Vov (6th) Tishrei, the Yartzeit of Rebbetzin Chana Schneerson the Rebbe's mother, I would like to present a beautiful handwritten letter that Rebbetzin Chana wrote to Mrs. Esther Alperin A"h (Director of the Rebbe's Shluchim in Brazil) Mrs. Alperin shared a very special and unique relationship with the Rebbetzin. Special thanks to Rabbi Yossi Alperin.

B"H 7th Teves 5722, Brooklyn, NY
Dear Ester, Peace and Blessings!

I received your letter on time. I read with pleasure how your things are going well. I am happy that your life, in particular, and the work in general are proceeding well. Let us hope that you will continue to succeed in all matters. I request that you write in the future in detail how your time has been spent and everything, With a blessing for Kol Tuv I will conclude,

Chana Schneerson

Regards to your Husband.

Good Shabbos.Menachem.

Tuesday, August 5, 2008

The Hillel Foundation Meets The Lubavitcher Rebbe











Why didn't Chabad establish its headquarters in Israel? What is a Rebbe? What is the Chabad method to meditation and reflection? The above mentioned questions are from a first time released Yechidus with the Rebbe and the Directors of the Hillel Foundation. This fascinating Yechidus took place during then summer of August 1959. I would like to thank all the Editors from The Avner Institute for all of their efforts in helping to publish this Yechidus. Special thanks to Rabbi Groner, one of the Rebbe's Secretaries, for allowing this Yechidus to be released for the first time from his Archive.

Attached is an interesting picture of the Rebbe thanks to the "Rebbe Archive".

Rebbe: If I remember correctly, when we met last time it was discussed that everyone must always be going mechayil al chayil (from strength to strength). As a year has elapsed in between, probably every one of us is more efficient. I would like to hear besoros tovos (good news) about your achievements.

Question: "Chayil" also means a soldier of war. Is there any connection to going from "strength to strength?"

R: Yes, a solder is forced to go to war; he must go higher even against his will.

Q: Why didn't the Lubavitcher movement choose to go to Israel instead of the U.S.?

R: The Lubavitcher movement came to the U.S. in 1940, when the British Mandate was in full power. If you have a certain amount of energy and it is your intention to use it to a maximum of efficiency, you must apply it where it can be used to maximum efficiency.

Q: Do you mean that there are more Jewish people here that will be helped by your ideals?

R: There is more possibility to help more people in Brooklyn than in Tel Aviv.

Q: Is that why you chose Brooklyn, and not some other city like Chicago?

R: The real reason is because my father-in-law wanted a place where he could influence a great number of students. And this can be done more easily in Brooklyn than in Baltimore or Chicago.

Q: If the British Mandate had not been in Israel, would he have chosen Israel?

R: I don't believe so; you do not have the possibilities there that you have in the United States.

Q: Did the entire Lubavitcher movement come to the U.S. at one time, or did they come as individuals?

R: Lubavitcher congregations were established in the U.S. over fifty years ago. They invited my father in-law (the Previous Lubavitcher Rebbe) as a political rescue from Poland, which was under German occupation. The Hasidim in the U.S. intervened through the State Department. They explained to the State Department the advantages of having his leadership here in the U.S., and through the American Embassy in Berlin they were successful in having him leave and come to the United States. But, I believe, that even had there been a choice between the two million Jews in the U.S. or the hundred thousand in Israel, where they had already established yeshivas and Yiddishkeit (Judaism), he would have chosen the harder field to work with and not the most convenient. There was more challenge here in Brooklyn.

Q: Lubavitch is systematic, and the neo-Orthodox in Israel do not have some of the frustrations of the Jews in galut (exile).

R: It has no connection with being Orthodox or systematic. It deals with choosing a spot where you have no help or choosing a spot where you can rest twelve or fifteen hours a day. It doesn't depend upon the ideal but whether the human being is seeking an easy way out or seeking to accomplish something, and in a certain period of time. My father-in-law always sought something that was difficult to perform, that no one wanted to do voluntarily, and began by doing something revolutionary.

In 1940, Orthodoxy in the U.S. was going down. In Israel, it was going up, and in Europe it was at the same level more or less. When my father-in-law first heard that the Hasidim were trying to bring him to the U.S., his first thought was that this is a place where his energies can best be applied. Neo-Orthodoxy is trying to fight assimilation while it is still only a seed, as it is much easier to annihilate something when it is beginning than after it is fully grown.

Q: Are you not concerned with assimilation?

R: That is our prime interest. Twenty years ago there were three reasons for assimilation: 1) escape . . . 3) rescue. Now assimilation is looked down upon by all three groups.

Q: Please state your attitude about devekut (Divine ecstasy).

R: Do you have a specific question in mind?

Q: No. I wanted to hear the Lubavitcher interpretation.

R: Every human being, by his connection with G-d Almighty, has no limitation to his possibilities, because he has in his store not only his own energy but an open channel to receive additional energy from above. To have this channel open is called "devekut." You can be a very long distance from the powerhouse and you can become closer and closer to entering the powerhouse itself. And you can become a part of the Being we call G-d Almighty. That is the maximum of devekut. It does not mean that the soul parts from the guf (body), because the body is also a creation. It becomes not only closer and closer, but it becomes forlorn in Divinity. And yet, soon after that, he can eat his seudat Shabbat (Sabbath meal) and go to his business after Havdalah (close of Shabbat) – it is not like nirvana. In devekut you have no existence in yourself, but you are a part of G-d that is permeating all your being with His divinity. It is not in a hidden form, but it is functioning in your body just as your heart, leg, etc. are functioning.

It must permeate not only your actions but your understanding and intelligence. Performing a mitzvah is the action itself—like putting the tefillin (phylacteries) on your head—you can put it on your head and at the same time think about business or politics. That is called machshovot zerot—your thoughts are in another world. You can think about the perush hamilim (meaning of the words) itself but it touches your understanding only and goes no deeper. If you say the blessing with hitlahavut (enthusiasm), then it not only touches your understanding but your feelings also. If this hitlahavut goes deeper and much more, then it can bring him to a stage of ecstasy till he forgets the environment around him. That is, it permeates all your faculties.

A mitzvah can be performed limited and no more, but if you perform it to a maximum, then it brings you to ecstasy and even the movement of your head and involuntary movements are also under the impact of this mitzvah. Thus the saying of the Ba'al Shem Tov (founder of Hasidism) that every day before his prayer he was afraid that he may not come out of this activity alive.

Q: Shabbatai Zvi and his followers used mystical Kabbalah to break away from halacha (Jewish law), as they considered Kabbalah the true procedure for themselves. Perhaps this way may be the reason the [18th century scholar] Vilna Gaon objected to Hasidic teachings?

R: As for comparing the movement of Shabbatai Zvi to the Hassidic movement—every movement that is started by someone of the Jewish people has some common point because it was started by a Jew. Shabbatai Zvi also was a scholar not only in Kabbalah but in halacha, but after a few years he deviated from the right derech (path). It became something that not was only deviant just the opposite of Judaism.

Hasidism and Kabbalah are called in the Zohar penimiut (inward). That includes that there must be something hitzoniut (outward). Kabbalah is not something that you can dissect and throw away one thing, because if you accept one part if it is a necessity that you accept the other part. When someone comes to a conclusion against halacha, he is deviating. If you are logical, you must come to the conclusion that Kabbalah and Hasidism must exist; because without them there is something missing. The same thing--if you accept Kabbalah and negate halacha, you are negating something that is a part; and you are negating the basis on which you are standing.

The Vilna Gaon did not negate Kabbalah, because he had his own group and he learned Kabbalah. In his opinion, it was something not to be learned with a large group, but to be taught to only a select group, as the others are not able to grasp Kabbalah and must be satisfied with halacha. But there must be a select group above them that learns Kabbalah.

Shabbatai Zvi negated halacha. In the time of Shabbatai Zvi there was a group of Catholic priests that translated Kabbalistic manuscripts and studied Kabbalah. But this is not considered Jewish Kabbalah, as the Catholics did not put on tefillin. It is just like someone in Sorbonne, Brooklyn College, or some other university who can learn Kabbalah without putting on tefillin. For true Kabbalah cannot be separated from halacha. The terminology of these two kinds of Kabbalah is penimiut and hitzoniut (true and false Kabbalah): the body and the neshama (soul).

Q: How do you start with your students? Should I begin to talk to them about hitlahavut or just do the mitzvoth?

R: Now is such an era that you must choose with every individual his own approach. If you can take him with hitlahavut or devekut, do it that way. But the main thing is the actual mitzvah and you can choose your own approach. If you estimate your congregation or audience that it can be approached more effectively by explaining hitlahavut, then choose this way. The mistake is if he begins with one thing and then goes no further. If he begins with ma'asah (actual mitzvah), then he has the most essential part of it, and if the audience goes to sleep you have achieved the essential. But if you begin with devekut or hitlahavut and then they go to sleep, they will not know about the most important part—ma'asah bepoel (actual doing).

Q: I came across a great amount of children who expressed bitterness against their parents. Can you suggest an approach to turn this bitterness into love?

R: Although there is no general remedy that will apply to each individual, nevertheless there is one common point. In growing up he must encounter difficulties and obstacles in his way—the world is changing, his body is changing, and this presents obstacles to him. He needs someone for a scapegoat, ashma. The only person who has been with him all his life is his parent, and if he has no strength of character to say to himself that he must overcome these obstacles—even if it is connected with the biggest event in his life—then he must find someone to put the finger on. His road is not easy to go on. He must choose his father and mother to blame, because he knows his teacher only one or two years and he experienced these difficulties before that. If he can put his finger on his mother or father, he has a perfect excuse.

Explain to your audience the real reason they choose their parents for their accusations, but do not stress this point too hard. Tomorrow or the day after tomorrow they will be less bitter. Do not expect them to stand up on the first day and say "ashamnu (I have sinned)."

Q: How is it that I saw that the leadership of Lubavitch was transmitted through a daughter not through a son?

R: You probably mean after the son of the Alter Rebbe ("Old Rabbi"--Shneur Zalman of Liadi, first Lubavitcher Rebbe). He had two sons but they begged the son-in-law to take over the leadership.

Q: Is it ideals and not heredity that decides the leadership?

R: Only ideals. Only someone who has the aptitude in a certain direction. If you have a father who all of his life has consecrated himself toward certain ideals so that it permeates his very existence, it must also permeate his wife and children. If he is permeated by a certain idea, the first subjects to be impressed by it will be his son or his daughter. If the subject is Torah or Kabbalah, the son is more adaptable than the daughter. [Aside to the only woman present: "You will excuse me for saying this, as it is not my idea."] The reason for the leadership is not because he was his son, but because he has a maximum of piety, education, and hitlahavut; he received it from his father and his environment and thus has a bigger chance. The Tzemach Tzedek (third Lubavitcher Rebbe) was an orphan from the third year of his life, and the Alter Rebbe took care of his education personally. Thus, he had more chances to receive this education than even the sons of the Mittler (Second Lubavitcher) Rebbe.

This is the answer for an intellectual. If you are a Hasid you must accept a more spiritual explanation: Rebayus (leadership) is not motivated by something accidental or monetary but by something above us. The son of the Mezritcher Maggid (successor to the Ba'al Shem Tov) was his successor for only five years. After that he was niftar (passed away). It is not dependent upon something physical, but something spiritual and divine.

I wish you a kesiva vechasim tova (Happy New Year), and next year I will ask you more forcefully about your achievements.

Q: In camus or aichus (quality or quantity)?

R: You know that Einstein said that camus always transfers into aichus (mass into energy). There is an interesting quotation in Midrash Rabbah that if there had been one Jew missing of the six hundred thousand at Sinai, G-d would not have given the Torah. Not a Jew like Moshe Rabbeinu (Moses) but even the Jew that had a pesel mika (idol) in his tent—had he been missing, the Torah would not have been given. Nine Moses' cannot make a minyan (quorum of ten Jewish men) to say a kedusha, even though there would be a tremendous power of quality; but if you have ten in quantity you can say kedusha. Similarly, the Midrash says that in giving the Torah you must have six hundred thousand. That is the best proof that quantity and quality have a transformation from one into the other.

Good Shabbos.

Menachem

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

"It's a Matter of Life and Death.I need an Answer now."















"I have been to many funerals in my life, but I have never seen someone cry with as much pain as the Rebbe cried for that soldier."
-Rabbi Yisroel Meir Lau

The following is an unbelievable encounter that one of the Rebbe's seceretaries experienced with Rebbetzin Chaya Mushka obm in the winter of 1966. Also included as an interesting picture of the Rebbe Part (101 in the series) special thanks to Rabbi Asher Lowenstein.


"It was a winter morning in 1966, about 3:30 A.M. The Rebbe had left for home already—an early night considering that there had been no yechidus that night.

Just then a woman frantically phoned the Rebbe's mazkirus (secretariat), saying that her little baby had just fallen and was hurt badly. The doctors were arguing over procedures because of the baby's critical condition. She desperately needed a bracha (blessing) and advice from the Rebbe on what to do.

The Rebbe's secretary explained apologetically that it would have to wait until the morning and that he would ask the Rebbe first thing.

The mother pleaded, "It's a matter of life and death. I need an answer now."

The secretary decided to dial the Rebbe's house, and if the phone would be answered, he would ask mechila (forgiveness) for calling so late. He dialed uneasily, worried that it was improper; the Rebbetzin answered.

"Ver ret (who is talking)?"

The secretary gave his name and immediately said, "I am sorry for calling so late," and proceeded to give his mechila speech – how "it was a chutzpah (nerve) to call at such a late hour, but there is a lady here in desperate need. She says it is a matter of life and death." He described her plight.

The Rebbetzin exclaimed, "Why are you asking mechila? Adaraba (on the contrary), my husband and I were sent to this world to serve Yidden twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week. By your calling us you are helping us fulfill our shlichus."

Good Shabbos

Menachem

The Rebbe "Can I ask you to do a favor for me?"














The following encounter is a very unique and special Shlichus that The Rebbe sent former prime Minster of Israel Menachem Bagen to save the life of Jewish girl in France. The encounter was related by Rabbi Binyomin Klein from the Lubavitcher Rebbe's secretaries. Also included is an interesting picture of the Rebbe (part 104 in the series) To learn more about the Rebbe visit www.inspiringageneration.com


Rabbi Klein Relates: "The former Prime Minister of Israel Menachem Begin visited the Rebbe many times prior to becoming Prime Minister. I remember towards the end of one of his private audiences The Rebbe asked him:

"Can I ask you to do a favor for me?"

Prime Minister Begin replied; "Definitely!"
I received a letter from the mother and father of a Jewish girl from France. They describe how their daughter wants to get married to a non-Jew. They wrote in the letter that they tried to do everything in their power to stop the marriage, but nothing helped. So, the parents are now asking me for my help to see what I can do.

"I think," said the Rebbe, "that a person like you, with the standing that you have, should speak to her. Especially because you also speak French, it will have a very great effect on the girl." Menachem Begin listened to the Rebbe's request and accepted upon himself to do the Shlichus. The Rebbe gave him the girl's address and her phone number in France.

He told Begin that he wants to pay for all of the expenses he incurs from traveling there. Prime Minister Begin traveled to France and met with the girl. He spoke with his whole heart what his thoughts were and why it's so important to marry a Jew.

After much discussion she made the decision to end her relationship, and broke off her wedding. Today the girl lives in Jerusalem, is married and has a beautiful family.

Good Shabbos.

Menachem.

Thursday, April 3, 2008

Rebbe, my girl friend is not Jewish.















The following is a Yechidus of the Rebbe, which took place Ches Shvat 1980, with a college student from Brazil. Special thanks to Rabbi Dovid Weitman, director of Chabad in Morumbi, Brazil. Also included is an interesting picture of the Rebbe (part 96 in the series). Special thanks to Rabbi Asher Lowenstein. This week's email is dedicated to my wife in honor of her Birthday.


During the yechidus, the Brazilian student brought up his relationship with a non-Jewish woman and wanted to hear the Rebbe's opinion.


"Rebbe, my girl friend, who is not Jewish, and I are thinking of getting married. What would the Rebbe say about that?"


"There are," the Rebbe replied, "many aspects of our lives over which we have no control. Many physical conditions, as it has been scientifically shown, cannot be altered since they are a consequence of our genetic makeup, which has been inherited from past generations. There is not much, generally, which can be done by others to help these conditions.


"However, our daily functioning is primarily influenced by decisions we make throughout our lives. When people make dangerous decisions, we expect those around them to work to prevent the danger. If, for example, we would hear someone planning to commit suicide, even if they say that they clearly know what they are doing and have made a conscious decision to proceed with the suicide, it is universally assumed that we will do all we can to stop that from happening.


"Our spiritual lives are shaped by the choices we make. In a sense, the results can be more tragic than suicide. Unlike suicide, which occurs momentarily and does not distress the perpetrator anymore, a dangerous decision about one's spiritual life will hassle a person for many years. So, we must do all we can to dissuade a fellow Jew from marrying a non-Jew.


"May G-d bless both you and your girlfriend to find the right person for yourselves, and then, with your respective spouses, you will both live happily. Meanwhile, you should discontinue any relationship with her, and it should never be renewed. You should go from strength to strength."


The Rebbe then gave him a dollar and concluded:


"This is to help break the relationship."


Good Shabbos,


Menachem.

Dear Rebbe, do you really feel my pain?















The following is a fascinating encounter between a young Lubavitch girl from crown heights who was going through a very hard time in her personal life, and the Rebbe's involvement in helping her through the hard time's she was experiencing. It's an excerpt from the new book on the Rebbe "The Rebbe Inspiring a Generation" to see more on the book visit www.inspiringageneration.com


The Rebbe's care for every Jew, compassion for everyone's troubles, and sympathy for another's concern's were legendary. At times, people who experienced the Rebbe's consideration simply did not believe that he could really be so concerned with their petty matters.


Rabbi Kaplan relates that that when he was in Kollel he was asked to help a teenage girl who was going through a rebellious phase in her life and was emotionally distraught. The Rebbe was working to help her find her way in life, and Rabbi Kaplan was to interpret and explain to her the Rebbe's responses.


When the Rebbe wrote to her the he felt her pain, she reacted strongly; she plainly did not believe that the Rebbe or anyone else could really feel someone else's pain.


The Rebbe responded that when she will grow up and merit being married and having a child, she will see that, as the child begins to teeth and be in great pain from it, she will actually feel the child's pain. That, concluded the Rebbe, is how I feel your pain. Rabbi Kaplan ends by mentioning that the Rebbe's efforts helped her to straighten out her problems and help her find happiness.


Good Shabbos.


Menachem.


Friday, March 7, 2008

IDF commander: "But why my child..the Rebbe just cried"















In connection to the massacre that took place in Yerushalayim today, in which the lives of a number of Yeshiva Students were taken from this world. The following is a very moving and uplifting "Yechidus" that took place with an IDF commander and the Rebbe, regarding the Death of two Israeli Soldiers following the Yom Kippur war in 1973. it's an Excerpt from the new book on the Rebbe to see more information about the book click: www.inspiringageneration.com also included is an intresting picture of the Rebbe (part 94 in the sereis)


"Battle weary and depressed by the constant fighting, the officer expressed his wish that there be no more combat with enemies. Being realistic, however, and acknowledging that it was highly plausible that there would more conflict, he asked the Rebbe's opinion on whether there would be another war, or whether perhaps the Arabs had been so discouraged, during the Yom Kippur War, that they would never muster the confidence to fight again.

"At the moment," came the reply, "the Arabs are merely unable to attack. However, given time to recover and regroup, they will surely seek opportunities to instigate conflict. To further crush their forces and minimize the chance of future clashes, the army should have advanced to Damascus and Cairo when it had the chance. Although the government did not approve, the army should have continued anyway–ignoring the lack of permission from the government. It was a crucial and perilous moment, and we should have continued pressing the main cities.

"Why didn't Arik Sharon continue going into Cairo?" the Rebbe exclaimed. "He was just one hundred kilometers from there! Excusing the decision, the government claims that there was insufficient fuel to reach there. However, this is very difficult to accept; the Egyptians seemed to have no shortage of fuel, and if Sharon, as conqueror, had decided to use that fuel, no one could prevent him.

"Have you ever flown over Cairo?" asked the Rebbe, staring inquisitively at the officer.
"Yes," the officer responded, proceeding to describe with minute detail the layout of the city.
"In that case," challenged the Rebbe, "why didn't you take the necessary planes, fly there, and conquer the city yourself? Coming in with those planes, you would have easily surprised them and effortlessly taken control. If that had been accomplished, with Cairo in our hands for even a very short period, the present situation would be completely different. "

Unable to persuade the Rebbe to accept his position, the military officer asked about something which had been troubling him for a long time. In a devastating fashion, his close friend Zurik was recently murdered during a terrorist attack, just two years after Zurik's losing his brother Udi in the latest war. It was inconceivable that one family should deserve to bear so much anguish, losing two members in a short span. How could G-d have permitted this? Where was He?

Distressed at the tale of sorrow and unable to control his tears, the Rebbe began to weep. He finally replied, "Indeed, the story you tell me is frightening and upsetting; we are tempted, when hearing such an account, to question G-d and conclude that He does not really dictate what transpires in this world. We must, however, remember that we mortals cannot aspire to understand the intricacies of His divine wisdom.

"Having studied Torah all my life, at seventy-three years old and still studying and adding to my Torah knowledge, I feel that I have attained a level of wisdom. Nonetheless, the extent of my wisdom is ridiculous when compared to G-d's. Therefore, we must not come to preposterous conclusions based on our judgment of events around us. Although there is much we do not comprehend, often in retrospect we come to an appreciation of the righteousness of His decisions. Perhaps time will demonstrate the virtue of Udi's and Zurik's premature deaths; perchance, many Jewish fatalities were avoided as a result of these casualties."

"Are you worried," asked the officer, moving to a new topic, "about living as a Jew here in Brooklyn, in a non-Jewish environment?"

"As a soldier you are surely aware," answered the Rebbe, "that during the time of combat there is no chance to reflect on your fear. You must fight with courage and sincerity, regardless of how you feel. Similarly, when I am immersed in my work, even if the extraneous conditions are unfriendly, I have faith and trust in G-d, because He alone controls what takes place here on earth, and is looking out for the interests of every Jew."

"But," persisted the Israeli, "why don't you move to Israel? Your revered stature and dynamic manner will certainly influence the political and religious scene. Aware that many people questioned you regarding this, I have heard several different replies, but, the replies are unsatisfactory, and for me the question remains."

The Rebbe answered, "Living in Israel and enduring the responsibilities that would come with it, my influence on world Jewry would be restricted. Inevitably, my controversial position on issues would limit my capability of communicating with Jews, both outside of Israel, in Moscow, for example, and in Israel; in fact, even this conversation would be impossible in Tel Aviv. I find this place the most conducive for my work."

Good Shabbos.

Menachem.

Copyright © Menachem Kirschenbaum 2007

Monday, February 18, 2008

Major Book on the Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Schneerson, Released.















By Hallie CantorAcquisitions,
Hedi Steinberg LibraryStern College for Women

THE REBBE: INSPIRING A GENERATION gives an insightful look into the world of this most private and amazing figure. Included are rare photographs, encounters of the Rebbe's close family circle, and introductions by noted scholars Professor Dr. Lawrence Schiffman, Dead Sea Scrolls scholar, Simon Jacobson, Rabbi Shmuel Lew, Bentzion Rader, Dr. Audi Gazlon, and Rabbi Nachman Bernhard.

Covering everything – interviews with the Rebbe on his role and mission; audiences with notable figures; letters and essays on an array of topics – this book will enhance appreciation of the Rebbe's far-reaching influence, both as a Jewish and a world leader.

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Thursday, February 14, 2008

How do you know it's the Rebbe's Siddur?













"The Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson, of Brooklyn, the spiritual leader of the World Chabad Movement, is both wise and learned, but above all he is a man of faith"

-Geulah Cohen

The following encounter took place during the Month of Tishrei 5703 /1943 with the Rebbe and the Previous Rebbe. Special thanks to Rabbi Yossi Goldstein for relating the encounter. Also included is interesting picture of the Rebbe part 93 in the Series.


"Someone came to 770 for Tishrei 5703 whose name, was Rabbi Weiler. He had bought a large number of siddurim, and had brought them to 770, to the room where the Rebbe Rayatz davened, so the tzibbur would have new siddurim for Rosh Hashana. He sent one of the siddurim in to the Rebbe Rayatz.


Rosh HaShana night I stood in my regular spot, in the north-west corner. I saw the Rebbe standing near the Rebbe Rayatz, who davened with great weeping, enthusiasm, and warmth. After the Davening when everybody had left, I remained behind to help arrange the chairs and tables.


Rebbetzin Nechama Dina came in and asked me to help her gather the siddurim from the tables so it shouldn't be a mess. She herself went around and gathered siddurim. Suddenly I noticed how she went over to the shtender of the Rebbe Rayatz, took the Siddur from there, and put it in the pile with the other siddurim. I marked which Siddur was the Rebbe's, and ran over to her and said it was too heavy for her and that I would schlep the pile of siddurim instead of her. I took that opportunity of removing the Rebbe's Siddur from the pile, and as soon as the Rebbetzin left the room I ran to my room with the Siddur which the Rebbe Rayatz had just davened from that Rosh HaShana night.


I turned the pages of Maariv and noticed an amazing thing. Under the words, "u'malchuso b'ratzon kiblu aleihem" there was a line written in pencil. I was still new to these things, but I understood that Rosh HaShana is the time for binyan ha'malchus, "malchuso b'ratzon," and on Erev Rosh HaShana the Rebbe had made a line for reasons of his own.


I was ecstatic with my find. I had a Siddur with the Rebbe's writing in it! I figured I had to show it to the Ramash (i.e., the Rebbe). I went to him and said: I'll show you a Siddur which the Rebbe davened from.


He looked at it and asked: How do you know it's the Rebbe's Siddur?


I opened the Siddur to Maariv and showed him the line, and said it was the handwriting of the Rebbe Rayatz. The Rebbe looked at it and trembled, and then said: Yes, my father-in-law wrote that, but how do you know that he wrote it (i.e., I recognize it, but what about you?)?


I said that I could see that the line wasn't straight, and the Rebbe Rayatz's hand trembled when he wrote. The Rebbe didn't let up, and he asked: How do you know the Rebbe's hand trembles when he writes?


I told him that I once sat in the Beis Midrash, and R' Chaim Lieberman entered and came over to me and said that it was difficult for the Rebbe to write straight (when he wrote, it went up or down), but he didn't want to write on (the usual) paper that had printed lines on it. The Rebbe Rayatz had said to take a sheet of paper and to make black lines on it, and that he would take another paper and put it on top of the first one and see the lines through the paper, and would be able to write straight. So R' Chaim wanted me to have my father print up paper like that. I asked him how far apart to make the lines, and since he didn't know, he went up to the Rebbe Rayatz and came down a few minutes later with a paper on which the Rebbe had drawn two lines so I would know how wide to space them. That's how I knew that when the Rebbe Rayatz made lines, it was shaky.


I stood near the Rebbe's room holding the Siddur and said that it was very precious, mamash a treasure. The Rebbe said, "ya ya" (yes, yes), and took the Siddur from my hands, and I never saw it again"

Good Shabbos.

Menachem.

Copyright © Menachem Kirschenbaum 2007

Thursday, February 7, 2008

"The Rebbe is very Firm in his Beliefs"
















"But, if I am to use this opportunity to write, I must use it to be honest. And in honesty, in spite of my spiritual connection to him, I miss the Rebbe. My heart aches to once again have him as part of his and my flesh and blood relationship"

-Jay Litvin


The following is a Beautiful article that was written about the Rebbe in the "Jewish Look" April, 1975, also included is part of a Letter that the Rebbe wrote to President Jimmy Carter February 9, 1979.

On March 23, the eleventh day of the Hebrew month of Nisan, two dozen men gathered in a basement apartment in Brooklyn for what they called a Chasidic farbrengen (gathering).

"Let's all say L'chaim to the Rebbe. Today is his birthday. L'chaim. The Rebbe should be healthy and live long and he should lead us towards the Messiah." It was a cozy setting: dim lights, a table with a plain white cover, bare walls. This was the home of a Chasid who only eight months ago arrived from Russia.

I went to the farbrengen to find out what the Rebbe's disciples think about him and what the Rebbe's opinions are on today's major issues. For the Rebbe's views and opinions challenge the most accepted notions.

...The Rebbe is also firm in his belief that Israel should not give back "one inch" of territory it won in the 1967 and 1973 wars. "It is because I want to prevent another war that I urge the Israeli leaders not to give back one inch," he has stated." The only way to prevent more wars and more casualties is by not giving in and to be prepared; not to retreat even if the U.S. government demands concessions."

The Rebbe was one of the first to say publicly that America--and not Russia--forced Israel to stop its drive on the west bank of the Suez Canal, thus preventing Israel from eliminating the Egyptian Third Army during the Yom Kippur War. Even today few publicly state this, although Moshe Dayan has recently confirmed that it was an American ultimatum which saved the Egyptian armed forces.

But even during the war, the Rebbe was steadfast in his opinions, which proved correct. When told that he should cease urging the Israelis to drive on to Damascus and not stop 30 miles from the Syrian capital because of the threat of Soviet intervention, the Rebbe stated: "I say the Russians will not intervene."

And they didn't. When a reporter asked how the Rebbe could advise the Israelis while he lived in America, the Rebbe bristled: "This involves the security of three million Jews in Israel. Every American Jew not only has the right but the obligation to help Israel with money, with raising the morale of the Israelis and with advice he feels is good for the Jewish state..."

A letter of the Rebbe to President Jimmy Carter, dated February 9, 1979:

"The U.S. government, and you Mr. President personally, are in a unique position of influence among the nations of the world, particularly those benefiting from U.S. economic, cultural and other forms of aid, to encourage them to follow your example and to share your "conviction that the noblest task of government is education" - to quote your statement (2/28/78) - a conviction which has been translated into bold, comprehensive action. I am confident that the response will be positive, and I venture to say that it would have a favorable impact on those in this country who, for one reason or another, are not, as yet, enthusiastic about Congress legislation on the submitted project"

Good Shabbos

Menachem.
Copyright © Menachem Kirschenbaum 2007

Friday, January 25, 2008

What is the foundation to a Jewish Marriage?














"The marriage of every couple ... is connected to the ultimate marriage between G-d and the Jewish people that will be consummated in the Era of Redemption."

-The Rebbe

The audiences the Rebbe conducted with individuals and families were intensely private occasions. The confidential discussions would sometimes cover the deepest and most personal aspects of the visitors' lives. Some of those audiences will never be shared, their contents too private to reveal to others. Remarkably, the discussions which have been disclosed to the public, notwithstanding their inherently personal nature, carry important, lasting insights, applicable to a sprawling range of people and situations.

I would like to present a private audience, conducted with a kallah (bride) just before her wedding in 1963 that I find particularly inspiring and timely, because of my wedding this upcoming week, I would like to take this opportunity on behalf of Myself and my kallah to invite all readers from over the years to join us in our Simcha, our Simcha will take place this Wednesday, January 30, in Oholei Torah Ballroom. Also included is an interesting picture of the Rebbe (part 90 in the series) special thanks to Rabbi Asher Lowenstein.

The following is an encounter between the Rebbe and a kallah, in which the Rebbe shares a beautiful explanation of the mitzvah of Mezuzah.

"When I entered his room, the Rebbe inquired about my wedding preparations. I replied that, "Baruch Hashem, everything is in order."

The Rebbe was interested in details, so I told him that we had bought tables and chairs. Apparently not finding these facts trivial, the Rebbe continued to inquire, "What else?" I mentioned some of the other things we had acquired, "We bought dishes for the kitchen." "What else?"

The Rebbe, unfazed by my petty answers, was genuinely concerned about every aspect of our home. This continued for some time, until we had covered every little thing in the home. Finally, after all the questions, the Rebbe turned to me and stated, "When a Jewish home is being built, the first thing you do is post a Mezuzah on the door."

The Rebbe proceeded to give me an explanation, which I had never heard before, of why this mitzvah is so important to a Jewish home.

The word mezuzah has three syllables: 1) meh, 2) zu, and 3) zuh. The מ (mem), first letter of the word, has a numerical value of 40 and relates to the Torah: The written Torah was delivered to Moshe Rabbeinu over 40 days and 40 nights, the Torah sheb'al peh, the Oral Torah, opens with a 'mem' at the beginning, -
מאימתי קורין את שמע
(may'aimosay korin shema), and ends with a 'mem' (Hashem yevarech es amo bashalom – G-d will bless his nation with peace). The זו ("Zu," the feminine form of "this," in Hebrew) of Mezuzah refers to the Jewish people, and specifically to the women, as the Gemara says, Bayso zu ishto – "the wife is the home."


The women are directly involved and constantly active in forming the character of the Jewish home. Also, the woman of the household is privileged with being responsible for tending to guests, a mitzvah that makes the home radiate from within.

The final vowel, הז (Zuh): refers to Hashem, as it says, זה אלי ואנוהו Ze Keili V'anveihu . – "this is my G-d and I will glorify him." A home glorifies Hashem through family purity. Thus, the Mezuzah corresponds to the three factors that define and bring quality to a Jewish home: 1) Torah, 2) The Jewish woman, and 3) Hashem. The Rebbe's fascinating explanation is just one example of how the Rebbe took every opportunity to instill so many people with the importance of Mitzvos and, one by one, enlightened the actions of the Jewish nation.

Good Shabbos.

Menachem.

Copyright © Menachem Kirschenbaum 2007

Wednesday, January 16, 2008

Can any human being become a Rebbe?






















Elie Wiesel—author, humanitarian, and Holocaust survivor—relates the following: "Whenever I would see the Rebbe, he touched the depth in me. That is true of every person who came to see the Rebbe. Somehow, when the person left, he or she felt that they had lived deeper and higher, on a higher level, on a deeper sense of life and a quest for life and meaning."

What then is a Rebbe? What is the secret to a Rebbe? Can any human being become a Rebbe?

The following is a question-and-answer session among a group of college students that took place in the summer of 1951, shortly after the Rebbe assumed the mantle of leadership. Also included is an interesting picture of the Rebbe, special thanks to Rabbi Pinny Lew,

Q: What is a Rebbe?

A: A Rebbe is one whose soul also includes the souls of his Chassidim. When a Chassid comes to the Rebbe with a problem, he tries to find in the Rebbe the part of his soul which is included in the Rebbe’s and connect it with his soul, and thus be connected with the Rebbe’s soul. It is through this connection that the Chassid receives his material and spiritual life and needs.
For example, let us take the bulb which gives off light. The bulb itself cannot give any light; however, there are electrical power plants stationed in some distant part of the city which generate the power of light. There must be some resemblance in the bulb which enables it to receive the power from the plant. Therefore, a wire which is connected to the power station is also connected to the bulb, and when this connection is opened by turning the switch the bulb receives the power and will then function.

The same applies to a Rebbe and Chassidim. The Rebbe is the power plant which gives the necessary power to fulfill the commandments and obligations (spiritual) also, and delivers the needs to live a happy and prosperous life (material). The channel through which the Chassid can receive these necessities is his soul which is connected to the soul of the Rebbe. The function of the Rebbe is to deliver the above-mentioned necessities, spiritual and material, to his Chassidim.

Although the Rebbe is required to fulfill his bodily functions also, that is not his purpose or true function. It is only because his soul is bound with an earthly body which cannot exist without these functions. When one comes to a rabbi complaining of a headache and the rabbi gives him an aspirin, we surely won’t say that this is the function of a rabbi. The same is with a Rebbe, when he must carry out the necessary functions of the body.

Q: Can anyone become a Rebbe?

A: Not everyone can become a Rebbe. One needs something from above to fulfill this mission. It is easier when a Rebbe has inherited his position, just as it is easier for one who has inherited a talent to perform and develop his talents than one who has to develop them without immediate inherited talent.

Q: Is the function of a Rebbe like that of a psychologist? Can a Rebbe take the place of a psychiatrist?

A: When a psychiatrist speaks to his patient he regards him as an object of study. Though he is interested in curing his patient and in helping him adjust to life, his approach is to derive not only a healthy being but an accumulation of information about human beings for his future knowledge.

A Rebbe gives himself over completely to the person. When one is seeking a solution, the Rebbe does not study him but is more emotionally involved with the person who comes to see him. Only a small part of a Rebbe’s work is like that of a psychiatrist’s. That is not his primary function.

Yet when one needs aspirin for a cure, the Rebbe will tell him to go to the drugstore and buy some, and not try to substitute the prescription with something else. If he needs a psychiatrist to cure his ailment the Rebbe will not try to substitute his cure with another person.

Q: What is the difference between a Rebbe and a rabbi?

A: A rabbi is one who teaches his pupils when they come to him and will answer a question when it is brought to him. A Rebbe does not wait for you to come to him. He reaches forth among the people and tries to awaken them and inspire them, and tries to find ways and methods to bring them their religion.

Q: What is the difference between a “Rebbe” and a Rav?”

A: A Rebbe does not wait for you to come and ask him questions, but reaches forth among his people and tries to inspire them.

Q: What is the meaning of a “bracha” (blessing) which a Rebbe blesses?

A: The giving and receiving a “bracha” traces back to the times of our forefathers Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. Since then, it has been the custom.

Q: What is the significance of a “bracha?”

A: In the words of my father-in-law, a bracha is like rain. If the soil is plowed and ready to be sown, and one throws seeds into the soil, the seeds will grow and blossom when rain falls upon them. If, however, the soil is unprepared, the seed finds difficulty in sprouting forth, even when there is an abundance of rain.

Rain can accomplish its function and be useful only when preceded by the plowing and tilling of the soil, planting of the seeds and preparing the soil for growing. However, should rain fall on unplowed and untilled soil, not only won’t it accomplish its function but furthermore, it may cause damage.

The same applies to a “bracha.” The body (actions and desires of the body) must be tilled and plowed. Only then will the “bracha” be useful and help the blessed elevate himself to a higher standard.

When an individual comes for a bracha and he is emotionally and spiritually equipped, the bracha will help him to grow and blossom into a meaningful individual.

If, however, one is in a coma-like state, and it is difficult to revive him, a good doctor would not give up his task of trying to awaken him. He would do his utmost to help this individual, even if it means hurting the individual for the latter’s benefit. If necessary, he will even give shock treatments if he knows that the patient will be revived by that method and that method will help the individual.

Q: In Europe the Chassidim often travel to their Rebbe on yontev (holiday). Why was this so?
A: A Chassid finds in his Rebbe a connection between himself and G-d. He feels that when he goes to his Rebbe he will take back with him more holiness.

Q: When a Chassid goes away on yontev to the Rebbe, there seems to be a spirit that leaves the household with his absence. There is a difference when a man fulfills the mitzvoth of yontev and when he is not there to perform them.

A: A Chassid is not obligated to leave his family and go to the Rebbe. Yet if a wife is satisfied to have her husband go away to work for seven or eight hours a day, in order to make a living, so too should she be satisfied to have her husband go away for a few hours to learn, and to make a spiritual life for both their lives and their family.

Q: Is the standard of learning for girls the same as for boys?

A: No. The reason for this is not because they lack the qualifications to elevate themselves to that standard of knowledge. It is because Almighty G-d awarded them with a more important and higher responsibility, that they were relieved of this task of learning. This greater task and obligation is the preparation of the future generation, the education of our young boys and girls in the true Jewish spirit. It is the mother whom the Torah obligated to fulfill this highly important responsibility, and to enable them to do so they were exempt from the task of learning.

Q: Does Lubavitch provide schools of higher learning such as Gemara (Talmud) for girls?

A: It is obligatory for boys to learn Gemara but not for girls. Not because girls are inferior in any way, but because women have a harder task to do in life. They have to raise and educate future generations.

Q: Would you say that doing is more important than learning? If so, are you not bound to lead a life of blind faith?

A: When a child is hungry and wants to eat immediately, his mother does not explain to him all the processes which the foods go through in order that he be able to eat them. Rather, she gives him food immediately, for that is what will satisfy him. Then she can proceed to explain the baking of the bread, etc. to the child if the child wants to know.

Just as one needs food for his physical life, so does one need food for his spiritual life. It follows the same process.

Q: Is not one supposed to rationalize his thoughts and understand what he is doing?

A: Rationalization is a means by which one should strengthen his faith. Rationalization should make one believe more strongly.

Q: Does science contradict religion?

A: Science cannot be opposed to religion, nor religion to science, because religion is truth and science is seeking the truth. There can be only a temporary misunderstanding between science and religion.

Q: How can you explain scientifically the existence of G-d and the need for religion?

A: Let us take the Chumash (Torah) and open it. Before you are many words. Suppose you had never heard of a printer nor seen a printing shop. Would you then say, not knowing how these words were formed, that they developed from a bottle of ink that was spilled by itself and formed these words? Or would you not say that these words were made on purpose? You would have to say that there was some force that created these words and put them back in order. Just as a pencil which contains billions of atoms, has to have some law of order governing it to exist, so too do the words in the Chumash need an order governing it to exist and to be understood.

We have established that the Chumash was made purposefully. When G-d gave the Torah to the Jewish people, they were given it directly from G-d and accepted it directly from Him. (Moses went halfway up Mount Sinai and G-d came down to meet him.) There were 600,000 Jews at Mount Sinai who heard what G-d said and who accepted the Torah. They passed on what they knew to be true from generation to generation. It is not very likely that a father in all his senses would tell his son a thing that is not so.

There have never been fewer than 600,000 religious Jews in Jewish history, and this chain of tradition has never been broken. There has never been an interruption in the constant regeneration of at least 600,000 religious Jews. In other religions, there is not to be found this unbroken chain of tradition.

Q: If all that is said above is true, what proof does one have that the Jewish religion is the true and only religion?

A: A scientific discovery is accepted when there is enough evidence or proof that the discovery is true. The more people who agree with the results of an experiment add support to that discovery. If 600 people performed an experiment using the same implements and 100 people performed the same experiment on the same basis, and the results showed that the 600 people stated a belief on the basis of their experiments, and the 100 people disagreed with them on the basis of their experiments, you would believe the 600 people more readily than the 100 people.
The Christian religion has only 12 witnesses to affirm its origin and prominence. The Buddhists had three witnesses. The Muslims had only one witness, and Mohammed was a mentally ill person. The Jewish people had 600,000 witnesses. On that basis you would say the Jewish religion has the greatest amount of witnesses and therefore the greatest amount of truth.

Q: Was there only quantity or quality too at Mount Sinai?